Even though a vast majority of sex toys are made specifically for female or male genitalia, it hasn’t stopped us from using them together. Solo play is a lot of fun when one of us is nowhere to be found. However, the fun we have using sex toys together is much better and leaves us both on “cloud nine.” Over the course of the past few years we’ve really come (pun intended) a long way. Our relationship is better now than ever before. We’ve taken the most simple of sex toys and turned them into an out-of-body experience for each of us. Here are some examples of how we used gender specific toys together.
Liam says: I think about Robin a lot when we’re not together. Just thinking about her gets me turned on. When in the heat of the moment, I often turn to my Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo to get my release.I can’t believe how great it feels during "me" time, but it feels much better when Robin uses it on me. There have been several times during foreplay that Robin breaks out this wonderful creation and works me over just to the brink of orgasm. Sometimes she stops, other times she finishes me off. Whatever the outcome, giving her control allows me to lay back and simply enjoy everything that is going on.
Robin says: It is really hard for me to have g-spot orgasms as I’m more of a clitoral orgasm girl. I love the feeling of g-spot toys, but there’s something about using them on myself that makes it more difficult to orgasm. One of my favorite g-spot toys in my collection is the Prism V. I’ve never been able to orgasm by myself using the Prism V, but Liam is able to make me orgasm almost every time he uses it on me. Like Liam said, there’s something hot and sexy about submitting to your partner. Having both hands free allows me to play with my clit or rub my breasts while he’s working hard at making me climax.
Liam says: Robin has a pretty large collection of kegel exercisers that she often uses during down time or when we’re doing household chores together. I had never thought about incorporating a kegel exerciser during foreplay. Our first time using a kegel exerciser during foreplay was absolutely hot! During oral play, our favorite position is “69.” I inserted Robin’s favorite kegel balls, the Luna Beads, inside of her while she was giving me head. Since the beads have a tether, I was able to gently tug on the tether which made the inner balls jiggle around causing intense pleasure for her. Also, the view was amazing for me as I watched her get wet with excitement!
Robin says: I’m not a huge fan of taking baths, but Liam loves soaking in the bathtub, especially when he’s been working outside. Liam is really sexy and I love to touch him whenever I have a free moment. Not so long ago, I decided to “help” him while he was in the tub. On one specific occasion, I thought it might be really fun to try using a penis pump on him while he’s lying back and relaxed. Liam has a pump called the Hydromax Xtreme X30 which is designed to be used in the shower or bath. While Liam soaked, I placed his member inside and pumped him to the point of a massive erection. Hearing him moan turned me on and it wasn’t soon after that I helped him from the tub, dried him off, and then rode his cock until we were both mutually satisfied…and exhausted.
Liam says: Robin has a large collection of clitoral stimulators. One of her favorites is the Satisfyer Pro 2. In my opinion, this toy was definitely designed for solo masturbation. However, I accepted the challenge of taking control of this mysterious little device and I must say it was an experience to remember! It took some communication to get it properly placed and once in the right position, it was a matter of seconds and Robin was already moaning in erotic excitement. Watching her squirm and breathe heavy was such a turn on. Did I mention that it was this toy that made her squirt for the first time? That’s right, it made her love juices pour!
Robin says: Much like kegel exercisers, I always thought that prostate massagers were mainly used for solo play. Prostate massagers, in my opinion, do not seem to be very complex due to the fact that they are inserted and simply remain there to work their magic through simple movements by the user/wearer. One specific massager that caught my eye as we were getting ready for some foreplay was the Lux Lx1. It was not powered, nor did it seem to have any “bells and whistles.” I decided to get creative by inserting it and lightly tugging on the base of the toy. Even with the most simple of tugs, this contoured toy lightly massaged Liam’s prostate which lead to an unexpected and intense orgasm. It was really hot watching him!
As you can probably tell now, there are no boundaries when it comes to gender/genital specific sex toys. We enjoy using them alone but there is no comparison to using them on each other. The next time you’re about to break out your favorite toy, be sure to invite your partner into the bedroom and have some fun together!
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