"My name is Salvador. I'm 42 and my wife is 37. On Sunday as we were having fun sex, she accidentally slapped my face I asked her to do it again. She was on top of me and had control of me. I have always enjoyed having my chest and back scratched and my butt slapped. I love it when we bring our little whips to fool around. However, this time it was different. I really enjoyed the face slapping. I could see in her eyes and facial expressions that she was also getting turned on doing it. I asked her to slap me harder and more frequently. It almost got us to climax together. Afterwards she said that she liked it but she rather be the submissive one. I really liked it and want to do it again but I don't know if she's willing to do it. Is it normal for people to ask to be face slapped? How do I get her to do it again?"
Hi Salvador,
Thank you so much for sending us your questions. They are really great questions!
As for getting her to do it again, I think the two of you need to sit down and have an in-depth discussion. Although she likes being the submissive one, I think it's extremely important for her to reciprocate your needs. My relationship with Robin is very similar, however, I'm typically the submissive. Although I'm the one usually getting slapped or spanked, Robin has asked to be the submissive one on occasion. We've found it to be very enjoyable to switch roles from time to time. I'm sure the two of you are already do an excellent job communicating, but feel free to read our article: Let's Talk About Sex!
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